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Services

-   [Individual Therapy](/therapy-services)
-   [Extended Sessions](/extended-sessions)
-   [Therapy Intensives](/therapy-intensives)
-   [EMDR and Brainspotting Intensives](/emdr-intensives)
-   [Flash and EFT Intensives](/flash-technique-intensives)
-   [EMDR](/emdr)
-   [Flash Technique](/flash-technique)
-   [EFT & Matrix Reimprinting](/eft)
-   [Brainspotting](/brainspotting)
-   [EMDR vs Brainspotting](/emdr-vs-brainspotting)
-   [Attachment-Focused EMDR](/attachment-focused-emdr)
-   [Resource Tapping](/resource-tapping)
-   [Matrix Reimprinting](/matrix-reimprinting)
-   [EMDR vs Flash Technique](/emdr-vs-flash-technique)
-   [What Is Bilateral Stimulation?](/what-is-bilateral-stimulation)
-   [Is EMDR Right for Me?](/is-emdr-right-for-me)

What I Help With

-   [Trauma Therapy](/trauma-therapy)
-   [PTSD Treatment](/ptsd-treatment)
-   [Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)](/complex-ptsd)
-   [Childhood Trauma (Adults)](/childhood-trauma)
-   [Childhood Sexual Abuse](/childhood-sexual-abuse)
-   [After a Car Accident](/car-accident-trauma)
-   [Anxiety Therapy](/anxiety-therapy)
-   [Panic Attacks](/panic-attacks)
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-   [Performance Anxiety](/performance-anxiety)
-   [Musicians & Performers](/musicians-and-performers)
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-   [Test & Academic Anxiety](/test-and-academic-anxiety)

-   [Depression](/depression-therapy)
-   [Emotional Numbness](/emotional-numbness)
-   [Feeling Stuck](/feeling-stuck)
-   [Burnout & Chronic Stress](/burnout-and-chronic-stress)
-   [Grief and Loss](/grief-and-loss)
-   [Life Transitions](/life-transitions)
-   [Relationship Difficulties](/relationship-difficulties)
-   [When Talk Therapy Isn't Enough](/therapy-beyond-talk)
-   [Therapy for Adults](/therapy-for-adults)
-   [Therapy for Older Adults](/therapy-for-seniors)
-   [Therapy for Creatives](/therapy-for-creatives)
-   [Therapy for Professionals](/therapy-for-professionals)

Locations

-   [All locations](/locations)
-   [Albany, CA](/albany-ca)
-   [Berkeley, CA](/berkeley-ca)
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-   [Kensington, CA](/kensington-ca)
-   [Oakland, CA](/oakland-ca)
-   [Online — California](/online-therapy-california)
-   [Online — Texas](/online-therapy-texas)
-   [Texas — Trauma Therapy](/texas/trauma-therapy-online)
-   [Texas — EMDR](/texas/emdr-therapy-online)
-   [Texas — Flash Technique](/texas/flash-technique-online)

[Rates](/rates)[Contact](/contact)[Free Consultation](/contact)

CARRYING WHAT REMAINS 

# Grief and loss counseling

There is no correct way to grieve and no timetable you're failing to meet. Grief isn't a sequence of stages you pass through and complete — it's something that reshapes itself around you, arriving in waves that make sense and waves that don't.

## What I don't do

I won't try to move you along, and I'm not going to suggest that this becomes something positive. Some losses simply are what they are.

What therapy can do is help when grief has become stuck — when it's tangled with trauma, guilt, or things left unsaid, and the pain has nowhere to move.

## When grief and trauma are tangled

If the death was sudden, violent, or you witnessed it, the memory itself can carry a traumatic charge that keeps you from being able to remember the person as they lived. EMDR and Flash can process the traumatic layer without touching your grief — the goal is that you get to keep the love and put down the horror.

## Losses that aren't a death

Grief also belongs to a diagnosis, a marriage, a pregnancy that didn't continue, a friendship that ended without explanation, an estrangement, or the version of your life you expected to have. These are real losses and they're often grieved alone because nobody thinks to offer condolences.

Fit 

## You might come for

-   The death of someone close 
-   A loss that was sudden, traumatic, or witnessed 
-   Anticipatory grief while caring for someone dying 
-   Grief tangled with guilt or things unresolved 
-   Miscarriage, pregnancy loss, or infertility 
-   Losses others don't recognize as losses 

If you're in immediate danger or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911. This page is not emergency care.

## You don't have to be doing this well.

Book a free 15-minute consultation.

[Schedule a free consultation](/contact)

RhythmLife Psychotherapy

Anna Talamo, LMFT

Healing beyond talk — trauma therapy blending EMDR, Flash Technique, EFT and Brainspotting. In-person in Albany, California and telehealth across CA and TX.

RhythmLife Psychotherapy  
1035 San Pablo Avenue, Suite 8, #4  
Albany, CA 94706  
[(510) 323-2488](tel:+15103232488)

### Explore

-   [Home](/)
-   [About Anna](/about)
-   [Services](/therapy-services)
-   [Rates](/rates)
-   [FAQ](/faqs)
-   [Blog](/blog)
-   [Free Consultation](/free-consultation)
-   [Contact](/contact)

### Approaches

-   [EMDR](/emdr)
-   [Flash Technique](/flash-technique)
-   [EFT & Matrix Reimprinting](/eft)
-   [Brainspotting](/brainspotting)
-   [EMDR vs Brainspotting](/emdr-vs-brainspotting)

### Sessions & Intensives

-   [Extended Sessions](/extended-sessions)
-   [Therapy Intensives](/therapy-intensives)
-   [EMDR and Brainspotting Intensives](/emdr-intensives)
-   [Flash and EFT Intensives](/flash-technique-intensives)

### What I Help With

-   [Trauma Therapy](/trauma-therapy)
-   [PTSD Treatment](/ptsd-treatment)
-   [Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)](/complex-ptsd)
-   [Childhood Trauma (Adults)](/childhood-trauma)
-   [Anxiety Therapy](/anxiety-therapy)
-   [Performance Anxiety](/performance-anxiety)
-   [Burnout & Chronic Stress](/burnout-and-chronic-stress)
-   [Grief and Loss](/grief-and-loss)
-   [Life Transitions](/life-transitions)
-   [Relationship Difficulties](/relationship-difficulties)
-   [When Talk Therapy Isn't Enough](/therapy-beyond-talk)
-   [Therapy for Adults](/therapy-for-adults)
-   [Therapy for Older Adults](/therapy-for-seniors)

### Important information

1.  Using this site or the contact form does not create a therapist–client relationship.
2.  This contact form is not a secure or confidential channel — please don't share health or medical details.
3.  Therapy outcomes vary and are not guaranteed.
4.  In a crisis or emergency, call or text [988](tel:988) or call [911](tel:911).
5.  Anna Talamo is licensed in California (LMFT #40713) and Texas (LMFT #205480); therapy is available only to clients located in those states at the time of session.
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